5 Tips for a Boudoir Session That Feels Natural and Comfortable
Let’s be real: standing in front of a camera in lingerie might not sound like the most relaxing thing in the world.
But when you’re working with the right photographer (that’s me!), it’s more about comfort, confidence, and having a blast.
I get it… this might be totally outside your comfort zone. But I’m here to guide you through the entire process, from posing to styling, so you can feel empowered, not intimidated.
Here are some of my top tips to help make your boudoir session feel as natural and comfortable as possible.
Tip #1: Wear What Makes You Feel Most Like You
Lingerie doesn’t have to mean strappy, revealing pieces if that’s not your style.
Think about what makes you feel incredible… whether it’s a classic lace bodysuit, an oversized shirt, or a more daring corset.
When you’re comfortable in your outfit, that confidence shines through. For curvier women, structured pieces like high-waisted panties or full-cup bras can add support and help you feel secure while looking fabulous.
Bring multiple options, from soft and romantic to bold and edgy, and we’ll explore what feels best on the day.
Pro Tip: Check out my blog Choosing the Perfect Lingerie: A Guide to Confidence and Style for Your Boudoir Session for some great outfit ideas.
Tip #2: Trust That I’ve Got You with the Posing
I know posing can feel a little intimidating, but that’s where I come in.
My job is to find angles and poses that flatter your unique body shape, so you don’t have to worry about looking a certain way.
I’ve worked with all body types, and I tailor poses based on your comfort level and natural movement. If you’re feeling a bit shy, I’ll start with simpler poses and gentle lighting, building up as you get more comfortable.
Pro Tip: Breathe deeply and focus on the feeling you want to capture rather than the exact pose. This helps bring out genuine emotions, creating more natural photos.
For Curvier Shapes: We’ll use poses that highlight your curves beautifully, making sure every shot feels like a celebration of you.
Tip #3: Add Small Accessories for a Personal Touch
Accessories can be a powerful way to express your style without overpowering your look.
Try adding simple jewelry, a pair of heels, or a silky robe to elevate the vibe.
If you’re wearing a lingerie belt or sash, it can define your shape in a subtle yet powerful way.
For a bit of edge, consider elements like a leather jacket or statement heels.
These pieces help create a cohesive look and give you something fun to interact with during the shoot.
Tip #4: Relaxation Techniques to Feel at Ease
It’s normal to feel a few butterflies, but a little relaxation can go a long way.
Before your session, try some deep-breathing exercises or stretches to release any tension.
You can even bring your favorite playlist to set the tone.
My goal is to create a fun, easy-going environment, so you feel like yourself rather than a “model” in front of the camera.
Bonus Movement Tip: Sometimes, shifting your weight from one foot to the other, playing with your hair, or even taking a small step can give photos a natural, candid quality. We’ll keep the vibe relaxed so you feel free to move and express yourself.
Tip # 5: Enjoy the Process and the Finished Product
Finally, remember that boudoir is a journey of self-love and confidence, not just a photo session.
Many clients discover a new side of themselves, one that’s bold, beautiful, and worth celebrating. And don’t stress about choosing your favorite photos!
I offer discounts on full collections, so you don’t have to miss out on any shots you love.
And to make your images unforgettable, consider displaying them in one of my Fine Art Vegan Leather Albums or on Luxury Metallic Wall Art.
